Transformation Skills

Your Possibility Stone is your primary tool to shift into and hold the identity of 'Possibilitator'.

Your Possibility Stone is a pain-in-the-ass reminder that at any moment, no matter what is happening, you have the choice to originate your speaking, thinking, feeling, and actions in your Survival-Box Defense Mechanisms or in your Bright Principles.

The experiment is for a week, every time you are faced with a problem, physically hold your Possibility Stone between you and the problem. No matters whether the problem is a physical (you broke your friend' smartphone screen), intellectual (you are in an argument), emotional (someone has just projected on you that you are persecuting them), energetic (someone keeps trying to get into your personal bubble of space), archetypal (you block every offer you are given to serve through your Archetypal Lineage).

Physically hold your Possibility Stone between you and the problem, and let it be a portal to give you 10 different ways you could shift out of it being a problem situation.

List the 10 possibilities into your Beep! Book.

Choose two of the possibilities and try them.

After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code POSSSKIL.01 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This Experiment is worth 1 Matrix Point.

Your Beep! Book is your self-made Map of the Path you've walked, the traps you've fell into, the cliff you've jumped, the detour you've taken to be exactly where you are right now.

As a Possibilitator, you are bridge-builder. Your Beep! Book notes are the design of the bridge that you've built for yourself. A bridge that now could be used by a entire generation of edgeworkers to get to where you are. Never undermine the value of your notes!

Treat your Beep! Book the way Christopher Columbus look upon his outline of the 'New Worlds' (they were new worlds for him and his fellow Europeans): as world changing (thought)-maps!

The experiment is for three days per week for an entire month, write 3 pages about your exploration at the edge of the outer borders of your known territory. This can range from short stories, thoughtmaps, drawings, insights, distinctions and its unfoldings, a process, to questions and its possible answers, ...

After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code POSSSKILL.02 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This Experiment is worth 5 Matrix Points.

How can you ask your clients to go to the edge of their Box if you are not willing to do the same? Your clients are inspired by what you do, not what you say.

Adventuring yourself to the edge of your Box - for real, not in your mind - materialize as experiments. You cannot know what could happen at the edge of your Box, otherwise it wouldn't be an edge. The only way to discover how it could go is by experimenting.

A big hint that you are Possibilitator is that, experimenting is one of the ecstasy of your life. If it is not yet, you can train yourself in experimental ecstasy. I promise its High Level Fun for your Adult Egostate!

Experimenting for a Possibilitator is as natural as wanting to drink water in the hot dry dusty desert. Experimenting goes without questioning. The questioning comes from your Gremlin.

Every day for the rest of your life, invent and do one experiment per day until it becomes a second nature. Register your Matrix Points for this Experiment after doing one conscious intentional transformation experiment per day for seven days in a row.

Experiments can vary in size, time, space, attention and resources. Here are some sample Experiments of the kind we mean:

• Eat your morning porridge with a fork.
• Knock on your neighbor's doors and collect one non-physical thing from each of them until you have 10 things (such as a belief, a story, a conclusions, etc...).
• Learn a poem by heart and find a valuable way to recite it once a day.
• Create a whole new gameworld.
• Draw the flag of your nanonation.
• Appreciate the quality of your boss to them out loud at a meeting.
• Vacuum your place in less than 5 minutes.
• Light a candle in your reading space, etc...

There are so many possible experiments at every time of the day. Commit to doing at least one each day for a whole month until this is your natural state of being in the world.

After completing this experiment, please register Matrix Code POSSSKILL.03 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This Experiment is worth 12 Matrix Points.

You can, of course, do the S.P.A.R.K. Experiments alone. You will learn so much.

However, if you do S.P.A.R.K. Experiments in a weekly online or offline S.P.A.R.K. Study Group, your whole Team will learn so much, AND... you will also learn about Spaceholding and Space Navigating. After you have delivered 5 S.P.A.R.K. Study Group meetings, please register your 3 Matrix Points at StartOver.xyz.

Thoroughly doing SPARK Experiments weekly applies discipline to your commitment, building up Trainer Muscles in 5 Bodies.

The purpose of your 3Cell is to encourage Authentic Evolution. As a Trainer, you cannot do it all by yourself. The lone-wolf strategy has maybe work until now but if you are reading this website, you you have found its limit.

As a Trainer, probably more than you think, you need encouragement, you need a team that has your back, you need a team that will give your honest, clear, evolutionary feedback emerging from their commitment to your own evolution and not for their Gremlin.

Experiment POSSSKILL.07: Create a 3Cell of Trainers - be them Possibility Management Trainer or from a different context (preferably a context where initiation and transformation is at the center). Make a WhatsApp (or Telegram, Signal, Facebook) group.

Commit to them.

Connect to them.

Be clear with them.

This might announce the start of your new gameworld!

Becoming Present is about becoming more of You right now, and now, and now.

Experiment POSSSKILL.08:

Your attention is your most valuable resource. Without having your attention back, you cannot have access to your other resources.

As a Trainer, you need to have taken back your attention from the dazzling storyworlds that modern culture is trying to sell you at the fastest rate possible.

The storyworlds of being cool, skinny, young, rich, and beautiful.

The storyworlds of resentment, low drama, being right, or making wrong.

The storyworlds of 'I need money to live', ' I have to do something to have value for others', 'I can do it by myself'.

Experiment POSSSKILL.09:

1) For the first part of the experiment, get your Beep! Book and write a (long) list of the common things that unconsciously hijacked your attention. Find example of what capture your attention here: http://yourattention.mystrikingly.com/#common-things. Write in details, what, how often, how long, ...

2) Circle 5 of those attention eating things that you would like to take your attention back from.

3) For the next 5 weeks, take back your attention from those 5 things, one per week. During the first week, choose one of the 5 thing. Notice and catch yourself when you are giving your attention to it. When you catch yourself, pause. Really pause. Make a different decision. Put your attention on something else. For example, what you are trying to numb by letting your attention be hijacked.

All of us has four brains. However, for most of us, they are not balanced. You have one brain that is dominant. Your dominant brain determines what it important, how to connect, how to relate, what are the different steps for a project, what is at the center of the projects, what are the values, ... It's a filter through which to look at the world.

It could be that you are at war with one or your teammate because you don't know which dominant brain you have and which dominant they have. It is so simply revolutionary to carry this distinction. It save my life more than once!

EXPERIMENT:

To discover which dominant brain you are, pick one object next to you, any object and look at it. Pay attention to what are your first impulses (not more than 3 impulses!) towards it. What comes to you first in relation to that object?

I just did the experiment with someone. I threw him a pen and asked him: 'What are you first impulses towards the pen?'

He say: 'Teal'. I said: 'What?'. He: 'The color teal.' Me: 'Ah. Thank you.'

He say: 'I now want to put it back in the plastic bag where it belongs.'

I say: 'Thank you.' and ask him: 'What brains do you think you have?'

He say: 'Blue and yellow.'

I say: 'Yes. You telling me the color of the pen is your Blue Brain at work, and then wanting to put it back when it belongs, is your Yellow Brain at work.'

The ideas you think with are called memes.

Memes are like genes.

In the same way that genes are the smallest instructions for the design of your physical body...

memes are the smallest instructions for the design of your intellectual body... your mind.

Your memes are what you think with. When you think about what you think with you get a chance to start over.

Memetics is the study, detection, creation, transformation and use of memes.

EXPERIMENT:

Read all the scripts from memetics engineering sessions in the Memetics Bubble. Then ask another fellow trainer to have a session with you where you both will look at each other's memes using the principles of Memetics Engineering.

The point here is not to change the memes that you are using. The point of this experiment is to develop the skill to look closer and closer at the meme at work in your Box and in their Box.

You might, at some point, almost feel the memes engage and trigger a whole bunch of other memes. Quite thrilling!

EXPERIMENT: Consciously Use Your Power of Asking by Asking the Next Question.

Asking the next question in the space can take it either deeper, up or sideways into another space. Questions can be the steering wheel of the space deciding where are we going next.

• To bring a space deeper, question the assumptions the space is made of that the people in the space are maintaining. Look in the dark places.
• To bring a space up, question the Bright Principles, the purpose of the space (you would first have to find you is the spaceholder... it is not always the one that declare itself so. Keep your senses out!), or question who is awake and who is not.
• To bring the space sideways, ask a question for which the answer lays in a different space. Ask the question while being connected with people and take them with you onto the next adventure.

Practice those three types of questions. You don't ever have to be a victim of the quality of the space anymore.

Also practice noticing the next question the space needs - even you are not the one who says it. Notice where the space goes with every question.

Experiment TRSKILLS.20: Consciously Use Your Power of Choosing

The power of choosing for a Trainer is imminent. When faced with a client, there's often so many doors to open, so many golden keys. How to choose? Which one to choose? If you can't choose, you cannot support your client. They are paying you because they can't choose themselves.

By choosing one option, you have to grieve the lost of the opportunity to choose the other options. It is huge. You are in luck that you've learn how to feel and how to feel sad.

First, practice choosing with more anger than usual. This or that. Pasta or salad? Movie or book? Which movie? A phone or video call? Dress or pants? Walk or bike ride? This time or that time? You are face with choice all day long. Every time you are faced with a choice, raise your anger to 18% and make the choice and commit to it. For a while at least.

Experiment TRSKILLS.21: Consciously Use Your Power of Declaring

Practice consciously using your power of declaration by declaring to your circle what you are. 'I am a memetic engineer.' 'I am a mid-wife of edgeworkers.' 'I am a witch.' 'I am psychic.' 'I am a gameworld alchemist.'

Then you have to prove it.

Use your power of declaration to put yourself in a place where your Bright Principles, your Archetypal Lineage, and your Being have necessity to come through no matter what. No matter how your Box and Gremlin are trying to sabotage you.

Take a risk! What could happen? Maybe that it works...